lauradi7dw: me wearing a straw hat and gray mask (anniversary)
I watched a couple of episodes of "Swedish Death Cleaning," based on the book (?). I hated it. I am all too aware that clearing out papers, especially, will be a help to Flo in case of my sudden demise or to myself when I need to move to a more accessible place. I just don't like people telling me that I'll be happier without stuff.
Next week (ie in 2026), the first four of the Nancy Drew novels will leave copyright and venture into the public domain. Those are from 1930. I don't have any of those, but I have the 1931 edition of The Secret at Shadow Ranche and the 1934 of The Clue of the Broken Locket. I read the article about what's becoming available in the new year and could just wander over to the shelf and touch something that will come out of copyright in a year. That coolness probably doesn't extend to keeping socks with holes (that I can't really mend properly).

The Little Engine that Could also becomes public domain next year. I'm a little concerned about what people will do to it.
lauradi7dw: (abolish ICE)
Today is the 35th anniversary of the first message sent on the web. I didn't have an email address for quite a while and in the early 1990s when I wanted to check in on alt.tv.xfiles or the digitrad folksong index, I took the commuter rail to Arthur's office at Brandeis every couple of weeks. Things have changed.
lauradi7dw: leafless tree and gray sky (bare branches)
Or did he have knee problems?

Commonly read passage this time of year (this is the RSV translation. The King James version, as used in "The Messiah," starts every valley shall be exalted).
>>Every valley will be lifted up, and every mountain and hill be made low; the uneven ground shall become level, and the rough places a plain.<<

Wouldn't that make everything flat? Why would you want all land features to go away?

I don't know why there is an image of the singer standing on stairs not looking formal, but he sounds fine

lauradi7dw: braid with ribbon (daenggi)
NPR, WUMB, WERS, and others are putting out or preparing end of year best song lists (or maybe favorite songs?). I listen to the radio a lot, mostly those and sometimes 92.5 The River (what does that mean?) which seems to be a franchise of some sort, because there is a different version in western Mass that still calls itself The River. I have heard a lot of songs this year that I like, but I don't know most of the artists or titles because the DJs don't tell me often enough, and when they do I don't have pen and paper at the ready. I know my favorite Kpop songs of 2025, although almost all of them are in English. Should that count?
It was a big Kpop Demon Hunters year for a lot of the world. Golden was my head song for months, but I like a lot of the other songs as well.
A soundtrack list starts here
https://youtu.be/yebNIHKAC4A?si=8lCWbvXx-_b_jLsY
There was a short tiktok reposted on twitter of a cute little kid singing it but I can't figure out how to link it.
Does anybody need the movie screenplay? Here it is:
https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/26438527-kpop-demon-hunters-read-the-screenplay-2/#document/p1

J-Hope and GloRilla Killin' it Girl (not my favorite of J-Hope's releases this year, but it stuck most in my head).



Stray Kids Do it



The Do It challenge dance performed by a Hamilton cast
https://youtube.com/shorts/ytBg-BJNQPo?si=efbis9e5_g6cQQ-5

WERS played Billie Eilish's "Birds of a Feather" a lot this year. Why is the group name just her name (Eilish is her middle name) when her brother Fineas is part of every project? Wouldn't Billie & Fineas made more sense?
I prefer the cover by Kim Seungmin



Here's one that's not in English (except I only know the English title)
Hwasa Good Goodbye



There isn't a standardized challenge dance for it, but people have posted little skits of themselves to the music, often including the sort of hand-wavy part at about 2:20.

But here's Hwasa singing in English, for Christmas
https://youtube.com/shorts/prgRbO-xJ8g?si=_gO574amExfd--Yb

This is K but not pop and it's not 2025, but almost (early December 2024). I have watched it a lot this fall. I think of it as the Santa's Helpers pungmul group

lauradi7dw: (abolish ICE)
https://www.advocate.com/politics/fda-warning-letters-chest-binders

There must be a charity somewhere that gives out binders to people who can't afford them. I am not done with my regular charity donations, but I'll keep this in mind.
lauradi7dw: (tap shoes)
One of the much-hyped Netflix movies this week is "10Dance," a based-on-manga rivals to lovers story centered around ballroom dancing. That's not a sport/art form that I like very much. Possibly it's because things have to be so both standardized and to some extent rigid to be scored in competitions that it doesn't look fun to me, and I think dancing should be joyful. But a lot of people do it, so they must find it worthwhile. There have been many interviews and behind the scenes clips as part of the promotion time. The subject line was something one of the leads said. (Ryoma Takeuchi) (Takeuchi is the family name there. I think it should probably be first?). The actors portraying dancers spent a year learning to dance in the standard/Latin ballrooms styles. I don't know what that means - lessons once a week while working on other projects? Way more? During the actual filming time, each of the two male leads had an exercise/warmup regimen (not the same one). I guess the point of it being "our own sweat" was that it wasn't something put on by the makeup people to make it look like they were working hard. They *were* working hard.
One of the behind-the-scenes videos * showed them learning in a room full of other dancers and then being coached during the shooting period. I thought of the "No dames" dance sequence from "Hail Caesar. There is footage of Channing Tatum duplicating the moves of his instructor. start at about 0:26
https://youtu.be/IbIyenSh8fg?si=QsrNsY-opPPDQVLL

I had a brief flash of the grandmother teaching the leads in "Strictly Ballroom" (1992. around the time the leads of 10Dance were born).
https://youtu.be/B4Us9Mq7GIc?si=vKrbiiBrO9ORcOhF

* This is some of filming stuff interspersed with interview footage. I can't find it with English subtitles. It was interesting to me to think about how critical the camera angles must have been - all those extra people and equipment in a room made to look like a luxurious dance studio, which means a lot of mirrors to deal with.
https://youtu.be/FWb_yeUuGu4?si=hupXq0juH9A5hTxk
After watching some of these things I spent a little while goofing with Duolingo Japanese, but then suddenly it wanted me to type the answers. In Korean and Ukrainian I use a word bank but that didn't seem to be an option for Duo Japanese. I'm not interested enough that I would add another alphabet to my phone or learn one of the three ways to spell in Japanese.
lauradi7dw: leafless tree and gray sky (bare branches)
In the Jewish tradition, at least in the US, there is a graveside memorial service at the one-year anniversary of someone's death, called an unveiling (for many it's the first time of seeing the grave marker). A couple of prayers, remembrances. Arthur's father died in July 2024 and his mother followed in November. Instead of two separate dates, the decision was made to combine the observance. Arthur's mother's birthday and that of two of the (now ten!) great-grandchildren bracketed last weekend, so it was decided that Sunday would be the day. On Saturday there was a combined birthday party for the two near-birthday teens, and a whole day of family hanging around. On Sunday we all carpooled to the Orlando area, where the cemetery is. They bought the plots, next to other loved ones, years ago, before they moved. There were many people making remarks. Several people said they were going to be brief, and then they weren't, but I think mine was the shortest. It was based on this experience in March 2024, of visiting on my own, and how grateful I was that his parents were clearly happy to see me, just for myself, not as a connection to anyone else
https://lauradi7dw.dreamwidth.org/2024/03/21/

Then something like 25 of us went to a restaurant that the parents had liked (wouldn't have been the choice of most of us) for lunch. I had taken containers, to decant the food on my plate so I could eat outdoors later. The Florida & SC relatives hit the road for home. The rest of us went to Pirate Cove mini-golf, a place we had gone multiple times when the parents lived in Orlando. Those of us flying went to the airport to deal with weather-caused delays. I got home at about 2 AM. It was worth the nuisance. I don't feel that I ever need to give Florida my tourism dollars again, aside for the aunt's 100th birthday party planned for May. I've already bought a ticket for that.

As mentioned in the flashback above and maybe other times, Arthur's family policy is that people who have been family stay family, and newcomers get added on. Arthur's partner wants to be my friend, I think. We are not a match personality-wise, but that's true of me and some of the other family members, so I am willing to try to be distant family with her, anyway. I talked to her a bit more than to Arthur's brother-in-law, to whom I think I said "hi." I went for two years without even saying that much during the first Trump administration, when he seemed to agree with the policy of separating families at the border.
lauradi7dw: wisdom tooth photo (tooth)
Prep today. I have a temporary crown and have been told that I cannot have dried fruit at all between now and when I get the permanent crown on January 6th. I have to be careful in other ways too, but she knows that I am mostly compliant otherwise.
lauradi7dw: (abolish ICE)
Jane Austen was born 250 years ago today, December 16, 1775.
Beethoven was baptized on December 17, 1770, so people have guessed that he was born the day before.
In an intervening year, the Boston Tea Party was on December 16, 1773.
lauradi7dw: (Railway)
To avoid two posts in a row about remembering dead parents, I will just give a little travelogue of West Palm Beach, FL. I flew there on Thursday. Almost everyone on the plane was white (except the flight attendants), many but not all were older than I am, and many whom I overheard seemed too privileged to me. Am I all of those things except older than myself? Yes, but my thoughts are my own. Then I left the airport and for the next 20 hours I only talked with Black people. I had chosen WPB because it looked from the map that one could walk from the airport to the Amtrak station. I thought for a bit and then decided that while in theory there would be enough time to do that part of the trip in a single day, one can't trust travel timing, so I went a day earlier than the train I wanted to catch and stayed overnight in a motel. As it happens, while distances are short, there are no sidewalks going away from the airport, and I didn't want to walk on the shoulder of I-95 (if that is even legal). This became immediately apparent, so I walked up to a person dealing with traffic by the terminal and asked to be sure. He said don't try to walk on the highway, take an Uber. I asked about a local bus instead. He pointed to the stop and gave a rough estimate of frequency. When the bus pulled up, I checked with by-sitters to make sure it was the right one. Yes. I asked the driver what it cost, and was told that I qualify for senior fare ($1) and that there were no transfers - just pay again on the connecting bus. At the Amtrak station (I decided to get a paper version of the ticket instead of trying to figure out why I was having problems with the app), I spoke to the security person on the platform to get directions to the Amtrak office (surprising to me, there is commuter rail service there). The I spoke to an Amtrak person. Bus to the motel (almost). As far as I could tell, every worker in the Best Western was Black, from desk clerks to cleaning people to the breakfast hostess. Walked to the Chipotle. Everybody there etc.
I did not go to Mar-A-Lago, which was less than 5 miles away, but I did wonder if famous white supremacist Donald Trump is aware that he might be a minority in his area. Or maybe it's just most people I saw and whole neighborhoods I walked through the next morning. What should have been a half-hour walk to the train, based on distance took more than twice that (as Apple maps had warned me), presumably because the streets were typical of many parts of Florida, with massive numbers of lanes and a long wait for the walk light at each intersection. I saw some iguanas, though. (near a canal, not at the crosswalk).
The train left about on time, but there was nearly an hour of delay between Plant City and Tampa (my destination), sitting still, waiting for a freight train to get out of the way. Train travel in the US, man. (this was worse than normal). There were whole farming areas of Florida I had never seen, noted as we passed. It would have been a good journey were it not for the delay. Then an hour in a Lyft to get to the relatives' house.


Update Dec 20th from person on twitter whose name I don't know - another Mar-a-lago neighbor the Trumps wouldn't like

Pope Leo XIV just appointed Fr. Manuel de Jesús Rodríguez — an immigrant from the Dominican Republic who became a U.S. citizen in 2018 — as bishop of Palm Beach.

5 years

Dec. 11th, 2025 07:25 am
lauradi7dw: leafless tree and gray sky (bare branches)
https://lauradi7dw.dreamwidth.org/2020/12/11/

I was thinking about Daddy this morning (I think about my parents every day). Donald Trump was brought up to be a terrible person but in addition to that is clearly not quite right in the head. People (not Jake Tapper, apparently) talk about DT as being old but he is (slightly) closer to my age than to the age Daddy was when he started needing help. What does old age even mean?
lauradi7dw: (in the shire)
The usual secondary title for Hamlet is Prince of Denmark. I am suggesting that the secondary title of Hamnet (the movie) should be catharsis, which I suppose might be a spoiler. If you want to be more spoiled, watch the trailer



When I went to a movie theater in 1991 to see Robin Hood, Prince of thieves (there it is again, that thing after the comma) I watched for a bit and then sighed, wistfully, and said "England." True again watching Hamnet. Even as I heard myself thinking it, though, what came to mind about going to England now was flaming transphobia, xenophobia, and the destruction of sensible healthcare. I can get that stuff without traveling. Then near the end, watching a play (filmed on a specifically made theater, using French oak), I wished briefly to be leaning against the stage at the Globe again. https://lauradi7dw.dreamwidth.org/523600.html
I have extremely vague plans to go in 2030 for a ringing anniversary event (if it happens).

There were about a dozen people (all but one appearing to be women) at the 11 AM show nearby. At least some of them had read the novel from which it was taken, because they were discussing it on the way out. The story itself was told in a very literary way (foreshadowing and the fulfillment thereof) but I am not going to read the book. I don't see how it could be as good as the movie, which included some very strategic bits of Hamlet on the aforementioned stage. It is tempting to say that (based on a couple of scenes), Noah Jupe may be the best Hamlet I've ever seen. Maybe it's because he was barely 20 when it was filmed, or because I had just been prepped by almost two hours of backstory, or (insert spoilerish casting choice here). As an aside, I think he was wearing trousers with a zipper, but I could be wrong. The only face I recognized was that of Emily Watson, although I had heard some of the other names. A name I had not heard before was Bodhi Rae Breathnach, in her first movie role.

I watched the entire credits. At the end was a statement saying that it was not to be used to train an AI. Good.
lauradi7dw: (Greenfield head)
One of my elementary school teachers promoted the concept of stick-to-itiveness
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/stick-to-itiveness
60 years later, I still haven't really managed it.
I bought a tree a week ago> It's chilling (literally) on the porch. I haven't cleared out the spot in the kitchen I used for last year's tree
https://lauradi7dw.dreamwidth.org/902193.html

I have started an additional pungmul instrument
https://worldofmusicality.com/jing-musical-instrument-facts/
It can be played seated, from a stand, or hand-held while standing/walking/dancing around. It weighs about 20 pounds. I can do that, right?
The group leader seems to assume that I've learned a bunch of the rhythm patterns. In truth, I only know the names of about two, although I can follow along with some of the others. But the jing isn't doing the same thing as the janggu, so on Saturday I was mostly faking it. The leader started stomping her foot on the beat that I was supposed to strike. I should be studying. Haven't.

In terms of "should be studying" I am still the slacker of the world about Korean studying. Catching little bits gives me joy. If I were to learn more, wouldn't that add to my ambient happiness level? Why can't I make myself do it?
But some degree of ignorance isn't my fault. Classroom instruction in the US, anyway, starts with the basic formal level, not dealing with the casual level. Years in, I still hardly know any of the casual forms, although lots of people in dramas speak that way to each other and I can recognize it. I also recognized in an interview video that BTS Jimin referred to Jungkook in a way that was polite and had a topic particle at the end. In class, we've been given what I hope are the very highest levels. I might be able to manage appropriateness when meeting someone's grandmother but would mess up grandchildren. And a reminder of what we haven't been taught has been made apparent in popular culture lately. Japanese (but they live in South Korea) group XG member Cocona has come out as trans-masc non-binary (I hope I have all those words in the right order).
Here is a British article
https://www.ibtimes.co.uk/transmasculine-non-binary-identity-explained-xgs-cocona-comes-out-1760873
The group is planning to change part of its (longer) name to align with not being a "girl" group exclusively anymore. People posting to twitter in English are insisting that everyone needs to use they for Cocona. Other people are peevishly pointing out that pronouns aren't the same in all languages.
I only know a handful of words in Japanese and no grammar, but I've been messing with Korean for five years and I have no idea what the word for they is. Duolingo has very occasionally dropped in you/he/she but none of my books/classes ever has. I know two forms for I (formal and casual), one form for we/our, nope for any others. A presumably bad analogy is that it seems like Spanish, where the verb and context are good enough, making pronouns optional. My guess is that Korean pronoun forms are too complicated and they don't want to freak out the learners. Kinship words are extremely gendered, though. I wouldn't know what to do about non-binary relatives, word-wise.
Cocona is the one with the buzz cut in this video. I would guess this was filmed after the top surgery (?)



I'm keeping up with my daily rowing goal.
I have done some but not all of the year-end charity donations.
For most of my card list, I sent out Halloween cards because I didn't want to wait any longer to inflict cute baby pictures on people, so I'm not busy addressing cards right now.
lauradi7dw: wisdom tooth photo (tooth)
Last night I was chewing a soft prune (not so dried out that it was hard) and felt something sort of crunch between my teeth. The two likely options were a pit that hadn't been removed in the factory or a crown. It was a crown. I had cream of wheat for breakfast and a cup of milk for lunch. The dental office squeezed me in this afternoon, so now I'm counting down the hours of cement hardening until I'm allowed to eat. The dentist was sorrowful that I would do something like eat a sticky substance.* She warned me again that #18 (for reasons I don't recall) has unusually short roots and if the crown gets pulled off again, it might bring the whole tooth with it. Doesn't that actually say something about the strength of the dental cement?
They are planning to start prepping for ANOTHER crown (different quadrant of my mouth, I think it's #4) next week but the crown won't be ordered until January, on the off-chance that the insurance will pay part of it. I have more than maxed-out my coverage for this year.

* I am hypothetically allowed "nothing sticky, nothing chewy, nothing hard." I really don't feel that I can give up dried fruit. I like white bread, which sometimes is chewy. Hard can include some types of crunchy but not all. I hope. I'd hate to live without corn chips. I adapted to only having sliced almonds instead of whole ones.

Humor

Dec. 6th, 2025 08:56 pm
lauradi7dw: (abolish ICE)
Trump has made some beyond appalling remarks about people in the US (especially Minnesota) with Somali ancestry. In response there has been massive trolling from Somalia and folks in the US to the effect that Minnesota is the promised land for Somalis, long foretold. Of course, 3000 years ago, when the Somalis supposedly arrived, there were lots of people already living there.
https://www.mnhs.org/fortsnelling/learn/native-americans
lauradi7dw: (Default)
in 1990 historian Laurel Thatcher Ulrich took the diaries of 18th century rural Maine midwife Martha Ballard, added interpretation, and wrote a book that became well known, was dramatized in a film, and has been serialized daily on Twitter.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/15594.A_Midwife_s_Tale
Ms. Ballard delivered a lot of healthy babies and did other medical care, but today's entry seems like an anomaly to me - something that I don't believe actually would be helpful.

>>6 Nov 1798. Cloudy. mrss Livermore Came to mr Dingleys for me to go and See her Sick Dagt. I find Patty very Sick. I put Black wool, wet with Brandy & pepper, in her Ears which gave her present relief.<<

I don't know what Patty's problem was, but how could that help? It's not likely to be mentioned on Pubmd.
lauradi7dw: (Default)
I woke up wanting to hear a song from Ferron's 1984 album "Shadows on a Dime" but couldn't remember the title. The cassette is somewhere in the cabinet, but it's easier to use youtube. I settled on "Snowing in Brooklyn" instead.



Is it because it's 40 years old or because Ferron's not trying to monetize it? I got fewer youtube ads than usual, and it followed up with another one of her songs. Then Kate Wolf. Yikes. When was the last time I listened to Kate Wolf? I remember talking about it with friends at the time. Good guess, algorithm.

Fun Home

Dec. 3rd, 2025 08:32 pm
lauradi7dw: me wearing a straw hat and gray mask (anniversary)
I went to see "Fun Home" at the Huntington today. Weekday matinee, mostly old people again, but not by any means everybody was old. Again the basement restrooms were all-gender, one of them was classified as stalls only, again with a mixed set of users. Obvious paper towels this time. (references to my note about the ART) https://lauradi7dw.dreamwidth.org/990704.html

We got the understudy for the lead kid (small Alison). I don't know if it was her first time performing as the replacement, but she was great, and during the clapping at the end time, there was a bit of her colleagues pointing at her and smiling. The orchestra was visible, in a room above the back of the stage. I wasn't as distracted by them as I feared I would be, but I did watch some. Very artful sets. It did not look like a graphic novel. I don't think it needs to be adapted to a movie (I don't think anybody has suggested that, but I'm saying so just in case).
lauradi7dw: (Greenfield head)
I turn off the basement dehumidifier when I turn on the furnace, because the heat from that dries things out enough. After a little more than a month, the electricity bill is down by about 25%. I was wondering if it would go up because I have the mattress warmer on for an hour or two a day, but I guess not.

Snow

Dec. 2nd, 2025 01:06 pm
lauradi7dw: (disco ball)
I thought we were on the rain end of the forecast line, but there is snow now. It may change.
Sandra Boynton animated this by hand, frame by frame. All vocals and instruments are from Mike Ford.

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